Rebekah spoke in church on Sunday, November 17 in preparation for leaving on her full-time proselyting mission in Reno. She talked about the blessings and covenants of the temple for unmarried members. Sister Garner and Sister Anderson (fellow brass band members), Elder Voda (a high school band friend serving as a service missionary) and Abby Huber (another high school/college band friend) all attended in person, and several friends and family members watched her talk over Zoom. Then we had an early Thanksgiving dinner at our house (with all the grandparents, Rachel's family, Tyson's family, Cathy & Greg and Anne & Jim) before going to the stake center so she could be set apart by President Solomon.
A four-generation photo before Rebekah leaves on her mission. Grandma Hendricks is Rebekah's last surviving great-grandparent.
On Monday, November 18, Sister Grover began her home MTC experience. That meant she spent the whole day on Zoom meetings in the music room learning all about the mission rules, virtually meeting and studying with her companion Sister Burris, and teaching.
Outside the Idaho Falls Temple after attending an endowment session together and with the Scott and Grover grandparents. I failed as a companion to my home-MTC missionary by almost leaving her when she stopped to talk to an elementary school friend. She grabbed me before I could get too far.
Rebekah educating Toad in the home MTC experience on Saturday, November 23. Rebekah ran out of contacts that weren't already packed in her suitcase, so she wore glasses for the last couple of days at home.
After saying goodbye to grandparents, our family woke up and started the journey to Provo on Tuesday, November 26. We ate lunch at Chick-fil-A (Rebekah's choice) and said our goodbyes at a nearby church (which I thought was a staging area for missionaries since the Provo Temple parking lot is closed for the new temple's construction but was actually in use for a funeral luncheon) where we shot pictures and took turns hugging Rebekah before going to the MTC and dropping her off in the parking garage.
Eating Asian cabbage salad in the garage for breakfast. I asked Rebekah what she wanted for her last three dinners at home before she left for 18 months, and Korean beef was on the list. I surprised her by making this cabbage salad to go with the Korean beef because I knew it was one of her favorites. So she made sure to enjoy it while she could.
Everyone in the car on the way to Utah.
The family at Chick-fil-A.
With her sisters at the church before dropping Rebekah off at the MTC.
With her parents.
After dropping her off, we went to BYU so Ana could go on a scheduled tour of the campus. I accompanied her and rode around in a golf cart with a family from the San Francisco area and our tour guide, Sam. Ana is planning on attending BYU-Idaho, but she figured it wouldn't hurt to see the campus of the other school she applied to. While we did that, Seth took the other girls to the Bean Museum and the paleontology musuem. After the tour, Ana asked if we could go inside the library and the geological science building. (The tour only took us around the outside of the buildings.) Winnie and Miriam waited in the van while we walked to those buildings and checked them out.
Ana and Andrea on the golf cart. It drizzled all day, so we had the plastic walls on all four sides of the golf cart.
Then we made the mistake of traveling to Lehi during rush hour so we could go to the Thanksgiving Park's Luminaria display. The girls weren't sure what we were getting into ("We're going to a light display? We bought tickets for this? What do we do ... walk around and look at lights?"), but Luminaria turned out to be a great experience. There were acres of grounds to walk on with incredible displays. They even piped scents into the different themed areas (pine, peppermint, sugar cookie, etc.). There were interactive displays, and a whole area with statues depicting scenes from Jesus' life with another depicting the Iron Rod and Tree of Life.
Under one of the light tunnels.
Under a giant tree of lights.
Interactive light-up stepping stones that changed color as you walked on them.
With some of the Jesus statuary.
At the Tree of Life.
After Luminaria, we went back to our hotel and had a late dinner. Our room didn't have a microwave like I thought it would, so we had to go to the breakfast area in the lobby to use their microwave to heat up our cans of soup. The next morning, we headed to the outdoor heated pool where Ana and Miriam each lasted about two minutes. Winnie and I alternated between the pool and the hot tub for a while with Seth occasionally throwing snowballs at us (he forgot his swimming suit, and it had snowed during the night). We asked the girls if they were interested in going anywhere else in Utah (the aquarium, Temple Square, etc.), but everyone was content to head home.
It was different coming home and knowing that Rebekah wouldn't be there for the next 18 months. There were signs of her absence everywhere.
Winnie feeling sad at seeing Rebekah's empty bunkbed. Ever the planner, Rebekah had stripped the bed before heading to Utah the day before.
But, of course, we're happy for her and proud that she has chosen to dedicate these 18 months to serving the Lord. Rebekah has been planning to serve a mission for years, and there's no place she'd rather be right now despite the hard work and the uncertainties.
As a joke, Ana placed sticky notes on Rebekah's face on our family picture wall. We were going to see how long it took Seth to realize what she'd done, but Miriam took them down the next day. He hadn't noticed by that point.